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Regardless of whether you’re doing online dating or not, I think you’ll be able to appreciate them. Oh, and don’t forget to tell all your friends about the account if you’re so inclined!
This is a PSA: You deserve a real date. I know you know this, but in case you’ve forgotten or need someone else to tell you, it’s true. You deserve someone who wants to make plans in advance and who wants to do activities with you. Or, if you’re so inclined, you should ask someone else out yourself. Single people have gotten so casual about dating and it’s really sad. I’ve written about this before, but I believe it with every fiber of my being.
You deserve to be asked out.
The more I date, the more I realize how important it is to find someone who communicates in a way that makes you comfortable. Sure, chemistry is important and you’ve got to share core values, but if you constantly feel neglected or suffocated, eventually the relationship is going to fall apart. If you need to talk regularly throughout the day, be with someone who can do that for you. If you’re crazy-busy from 9-5 and can’t chat until work is over that’s fine too, as long as the other person is also okay with that